This
might shock a lot of my readers, but I'm going to anyways. So I've lived on
this face of the earth for twenty something years and I know quite a lot of
things some of my peers don't.
I
hear that a girl should not date more than 5 men in her lifetime before she
settles. This brings me to the question "is there no difference between
dating and a relationship?" If you have an answer, please feel free to
share with me.
Me
thinks there's a difference, going on dates means you're not officially
exclusive to one person. You can see other people but in a relationship, it
demands your loyalty. You can disagree if you please.
May
I add that it's OK to go on a couple of dates with prospective
partners till you are sure you are ready to go the long walk with just one
of them. I don't subscribe to cheating
although it's almost inevitable that one of the couple might fall victim.
Never
lose yourself while you are in relationship. It should be about companionship.
You should also have your life going for you even if that person’s no more. Do
you and let him do him. Be happy, hang out with friends. It’s actually
advisable you build a bond with your partner, its not easy but the moment you
succeed, all the rest is easier. Old folks tell me that certain situations in
marriage completely fade out love that the only thing that keeps each partner
sane is the bond of friendship they have.
Now
to the reason I write today.
5
Frogs you should never kiss.
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The
Sweet Mouth: Brother can flatter more than the Prince of England. Darling this,
Sweetheart that, you are cupcake, pumpkin pie, diamond etc and you aren't even
dating yet. Don't be deceived. It doesn't mean anything. He going to do same to
the next thing on the line even you don't date him. He's so sweet with words;
he will mesmerize you till the point of melting. Before you know what hit you,
he's gone.
The Broken
Heart; He's the guy who seems so sensitive and caring when you first met
and tells you the heart-wrenching story of his past broken relationship. And
soon you'll find out that he's still nursing a broken heart from the relationship
he had with someone ten years ago. Face it, if he lives in a haze of
self-indulgent gloom and loves the drama of his own misery, you'll never get
through no matter how much time you spend trying to mend his broken heart. So
give up and get going.
The Un-organized:
This man right here, I can't deal with. I don't think any girl who's got a good
head on her shoulder should tolerate him either. The in-organized doesn't
have a clear plan when or where he wants to take you to. It’s probably when you
meet you start deliberating on where you want to go to. This should happen only
when you two are official, exclusive partners. I expect you should already have
a plan and please be creative while at it.The whole dating period, I expect you
make conscious effort to impress me while I give you all the reasons to want to
date no other woman than me.
The
Blabber: 'I'm a very busy man, I have a lot on my table, I have a lot of girls
on my case but it's you I want. Just say yes and I’ll put a barricade around
myself , I have been to every where in world, money is not a problem to me' and all the crack bullshit some guys blab! I expect any girl to walk
out on such guy and have nothing to do with him or his bloodline, yes his
bloodline. They might have some inherited traits of piss taking.
The Canceler: so he calls you up, fixes a date with you. Tells you how much he misses you and can't wait for the both of you to meet. Then a hour to the proposed date, brotherman calls in to apologize that he won't be able to make it. I'm like 'what the hell do you take me for?' this boy is taking a piss. Yep, only a BOY does that in my books.
I'm
sure some of us have met such guys and you can relate to this list. Feel free
to add your list of Frogs girls should never kiss. Next post will be on Frogs
all girls must kiss and never let go.
Till then have a lovely week ladies
and gentlemen.
Peace, Love and Stay Fit.
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