Hi people, it’s the beginning of the weekend, whoop whoop! I
am particularly excited about this weekend because it’s the first weekend after
my graduate exams and I feel super cool. It also marks the first weekend of
the rainy season in Nigeria and it has been rainy every day since a week so I
know I am going to be making love to my bed all weekend long…ain’t nothing
better.
On Monday, I read this article about people that don’t know
how to kiss and I feel its an unforgivable sin not to know how to kiss! If you fall under this category, Youtube is your friend for practical tutorial. Here is something that can help too. Just dip, nibble and twirl or curl in a sensual and slow way, you don't need to rush.
- DON'T BITE,
- KEEP SALIVA OUT OF IT,
- KEEP YOUR MOUTH FRESH AND CLEAN,
- MAKE IT MORE INTERESTING BY LICKING SOME MINT (secret potion) Hope it helps.
So back to why we are here. Guess what I
discovered!!! People still kiss with their eyes closed. It beats my imagination even though I have been guilty a couple of times but even with all the western
civilization, the "claimed" exposure, most couples still very much close their eyes while they kiss irrespective of the age. I would
really like to know why this is so. Who actually invented this custom? It’s
like when your eyes are not closed during this activity, you are violating a
sacred principle. Even the bride and groom while sharing their first official kiss do same.
Picture this, you meet this super delicious looking
person, everything is on point. This said person stimulates your mind, sets
your toes tingling, and there’s something in their eyes that makes you just
want to lean in. They fill you with this desire that all you want to do is know
what it feels like to be up close and personal. So you give in to the insane
urge to just taste, experience, feel, sense, KISS and guess what, your eyes are
closed.
Now, some experts have explained that the reason is more
about the senses and wanting to feel the kiss to its full effect. With
the eyes open, your brain is focusing on all of the stimuli you are surrounded
by in addition to the feeling you get from the kiss.
I had this conversation with a couple of girlfriends and
male friends too and they said while kissing, it’s natural that your
eyes are closed. It’s almost like your brain just shuts your eyes. A male
friend said the most hilarious. According to him, a girl that doesn’t close her
eyes while he’s kissing her is a wayward girl. She has seen it all and he might not take her seriously. Can you
just beat that?
Although, I know I have always felt that the feelings are
much more intense when you close your eyes because your focus is just your
internal feelings and the kissing experience without all of that other interference,
opening your eyes while kissing this person might just distract you and you won’t
be able to experience the full effect especially if the said person is a great
kisser. Trust me; you want that experience to linger for a lifetime.
This is just me talking, I was able to get response from
some people on my blackberry messenger and here’s what they had to say:
1. You wouldn’t want to see what you look like while
kissing, so neither would your partner;
2. Its weird enough
to kiss with your eyes open, but even weirder to make moaning sounds;
3. Its bad for your
eyeballs to look that close at anything;
4. For females, it
ruins everything if you’re fantasizing about Chris Attoh when you know the man
you are kissing isn’t even close;
5. For males, if
you’re kissing in the middle of intercourse, with your eyes closed it’s easier
to imagine kissing that video vixen;
6. With your eyes
open, your lover’s nose looks bigger and funny;
7. Its just natural and it creates chemistry between the
kisser and the kissee.
These are just a few of the responses I got. I would like to
hear from you and in fact, I implore you to kiss that special somebody this
weekend with your eyes closed and then with your eyes opened and share with me
the experience. I'm sure it will be fun. I will share mine *wink*. Have a great weekend
Live, Love and Learn.
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