TARA TALK TALK

Its painful to hear of how beautiful weddings come to an end because of someone’s carelessness or insensitivity.   Just this morning, the news making rounds all over twitter is of a certain Nigerian Celebrity whose marriage is being threatened because her husband got his ex-girlfriend pregnant.   I got to church, sat close to a friend and while we got talking. She told me told how the current divorce rate has really affected her decision to settle down. According to her, men are beginning to take a piss and she can't imagine making her parents go through the expenses that comes with planning a wedding ceremony. She added that planning a wedding these days don't come cheap, from the proposal night where the man is supposed to get the best engagement ring, propose in a posh restaurant or location and probably getting nice pictures to be posted on bellanaija, weddingdigestnaija or africanwedding site.

For me, the best way to express my myriad of emotions is by putting my thoughts on paper.   It actually helps me decide what action to take next. I have always being a huge fan of social media, this is because it has been able to bridge communication gap. You can speak to just about anyone, anywhere and at your own convenience. In fact, you don’t have to be in The States to celebrate 4 th of July, Youtube brings every experience to you. However, for every technological advancement in social communication, there are certainly some cons such as:                                                               1)  The short hand syndrome: "I jes cdnt help bt say wazap". Is this even english?  I'll talk about this in my next post.

Hi people, it’s the beginning of the weekend, whoop whoop! I am particularly excited about this weekend because it’s the first weekend after my graduate exams and I feel super cool. It also marks the first weekend of the rainy season in Nigeria and it has been rainy every day since a week so I know I am going to be making love to my bed all weekend long…ain’t nothing better. On Monday, I read this article about people that don’t know how to kiss and I feel its an unforgivable sin not to know how to kiss! If you fall under this category, Youtube is your friend for practical tutorial. Here is something that can help too. Just dip, nibble and twirl or curl in a sensual and slow way, you don't need to rush.

I know I've been away for such a long while, even my blog feels different to me but Its all for a good cause. A lady has to have more than just looks. Now, I noticed that this year's previous electioneering process in Nigeria witnessed huge participation through the online media and It got me thinking. Could this be why a lot of youths were seemingly involved? So I decided to investigate how the social media, especially Twitter played a fundamental role during the last general elections.