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A Good Woman


By allowing you play video games with your boys or joins you, she doesn't complain you are too addicted to football, instead she supports your team and share every emotion you feel when your team loses or wins, makes her a good woman?

She cares about you, supports you, encourages you, is never quick to judge you, listens to you and advises you. She knows your greatest fear is failure, failure of not being the best boyfriend or potential best husband and father, successful at work and everything in between. So she definitely understands you need to give work attention. When you get too attentive to your job than you should to her, she knows how to get that attention back on her subtly.

She's good all by herself, she's an asset! She's no idler, maybe a career woman, maybe not. She certainly won't suck up to you for everything because she's holding it down on her own. In the midst of this, she's very homely and understands the concept of a marriage bound relationship hence her love life and career life don't disturb each other. She's strong in every word! I hope I didn't forget to add that she's a great cook.

A good woman always prays, she's her man's backbone. She knows her importance but doesn't use it as a tool to blackmail. She's always forgiving and forgetting, the love they share won't allow the hurt survive.


She knows men are moved by what they see and her man is no exception if she's wants to be truthful to herself. So she works hard to keep her figure in shape. She also keeps her body clean and her honeypot cleaner. You can't fault her. She knows the right thing to do. She understands her man and his body. She's not limited to what wonders her hands and mouth can perform, she goes all the way down south. She's always willing to learn new skills, its a big deal in this world of ours.



She's doesn't nag and not a talkative, if there's a reason to send a message across, she's tactful about it. She's very intelligent, she'd rather improve her argument than raise her voice.

She's an all rounder, a sister, best-friend, lover, your queen, your blueberry cupcake, your confidante, your ride or die, your accomplice, your No 1 fan.


Here's to all the good women out there, don't push your man out the door. If he's a good man, he takes good care of you and won't ever want you sad, you need to keep him happy always. Love, respect and support him.







Happy Holidays people.

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